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Casey Carter’s 50 Shades

Casey Carter’s 50 Shades

My 2020 mantra “I’m NOT Sorry that I’m NOT Sorry!

My experiences taught me to make no assumptions about people; Never judge, especially without the facts; People will project their wants, desires and shortcomings on you; Know who you are and be confident in ALL that you are …

Final thoughts, Embrace who you are. Celebrate the magnificence of your creation. And love yourself because you’re here.

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How To Have The Best Sex Ever!!!

How To Have The Best Sex Ever!!!

How to have the best sex ever - that's such an intimidating goal. What does that look like? How do you do it? Is it even possible to have the best sex ... EVER!First, the phrase "best sex ever," is relative. What curls my toes and makes me purr like a...

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BDSM For Beginners

BDSM For Beginners

BDSM For Beginners“I want to try BDSM.”“How do we get into BDSM?”“What does BDSM even mean?”“I don’t know. Maybe we can find a BDSM guide.”This conversation or some form of it probably sounds familiar. After Fifty Shades of Gray, so many people wanted to...

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Take It Like A Man

Take It Like A Man

Name:StrappyAge:45 - 59What city do you live in?AtlantaHow long have you been pegging? Describe your first experience.Not long. Have really only tried it twice with a girl that did massages. I had always wanted to try it and she also wanted to try it as...

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Take it Like a Man

Take it Like a Man

In the premiere "Come Talk To Me" blog post, "Take It Like A Man," we began exploring "pegging," a fetish in which a heterosexual man enjoys being sodomized by a woman wearing a strap-on dildo. I want to thank Strappy (Twitter @Strappon_Lover) for being...

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Too Much Porn?

Too Much Porn?

Recently I was in Hartsfield-Jackson Atlanta International Airport on my way to Baltimore and I was walking to my gate, something caught my eye. It was a word written large and in all caps. A four letter word I never thought I’d see in the center of the...

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You Might Not Be A Freak

You Might Not Be A Freak

Just because you “spank that ass,” that doesn’t automatically make you a freak. Using handcuffs and a blindfold doesn’t mean you have a fetish. And by talking dirty, you can’t profess to being kinky but many who engage in these tame sex acts feel they can...

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True Intimacy

True Intimacy

What true intimacy is eludes most of us. It is most often confused with sex but its safe to say there is nothing intimate about a one-night stand or friends with benefits. Being intimate with someone means you know them on a deeper level and that doesn’t...

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My Sex Positive Life

My Sex Positive Life

Recently, I was listening to an episode of American Sex Podcast with Sunny Megatron. The guest was Amberly Rothfield and she was promoting her book “How I Made $10,000 A Month As A Phone Sex Operator.” I’m a huge fan of Sunny Megatron from her Showtime...

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